Love.Music.Quotes. — March 18, 2016

Love.Music.Quotes.

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“Music is a total constant. That’s why we have such a strong visceral connection to it, you know? Because a song can take you back instantly to a moment, or a place, or even a person. No matter what else has changed in your or the world, that one song says the same, just like that moment.”

I love music. Not only does it connect you to a memory (as mentioned by the quote above, it connects us to each other. Music = love.

 

Dear Adam. — March 11, 2016

Dear Adam.

Rather corny of me and granted, they are someone else’s words and not my own, I still feel like they apply to how I feel about you.

“And even if you’re not here to stay, I’m happy the universe allowed your soul to stop by.”

To paraphrase something else I came across:

“Thank you for offering me an entire galaxy when I only expected a single planet.”

I don’t really expect you to follow what I mean by all of this, I thought I’d send these out to you (and into the universe).

What I Want (Part III.) — March 8, 2016

What I Want (Part III.)

  • Someone that takes me to a wedding or special occasion, not just to have a date for appearances, but because they genuinely like my company and want to share such a time & memory with me.
  • Someone that doesn’t mind talking to me every day, even if it’s just to tell me ‘hello,’ but respects me enough to give me space.
  • Someone that helps me feel like anything is possible; that I can be completely myself around — good mood, bad mood, ugly crying face, sunbeam grins shooting out of my face; no pretending and no pressure to be someone I’m not.
  • Someone that knows I have many flaws but can & wants to look past them and see the real me. That can accept me for how I am, not who they want me to be, expect me to be or imagine me to be.
  • Someone that does not mind doing their own thing by themselves but when we come together, we are both interested in what the other has to say.
  • *Someone that wants me enough to take risks, and wants to be emotionally and spiritually connected, except if there are numerous red flags.*
  • **A relationship where we meet each other halfway – 50/50 in everything, possibly more/less on other days; where someone wants to make the efforts to have me and keep me in their life.**
  • ***Someone that is sure about me, so that we both don’t have to wake up every day wondering if they really care about us or not.***

I wonder how many parts this title will have; I wonder if this list will ever get shorter or stop at some point.

Always Will Be My Favs. —

Always Will Be My Favs.

When I want to be moderately amused: Melissa & Joey
When I want to be like, “holy shit, plot twist!”: Breaking Bad
When I want to distract myself with someone else’s drama: Gilmore Girls
When I want to think that my life isn’t so fucked up: Jessica Jones and/or Criminal Minds
When I just want to laugh: Louis C.K.

The Little Things + Reminders. — March 3, 2016

The Little Things + Reminders.

You know how ex-lovers say that they miss certain things about the relationship or the person?

Well, to me, it is always the little things that I miss.

  • Running my fingers through your hair as we lay next to each other, my body turned towards yours and how you turn yourself to face me, placing your arm around me.
  • Hand holding, either loosely or tightly.
  • Those (slow) smoldering looks that speak volumes.
  • The continuous effort of making plans and them changing due to spontaneity.
  • The playful tickling and wrestling.
  • The ‘I don’t understand’s,’ the  ‘sometimes I feel like,’ and the other misunderstandings.
  • The fights, the sweeping things under the rug until we choose to deal with them, and the silences where you think you might not make up.

Reminders to Myself: I have to take the bad with the good and the good with the bad and hope that they are all adding up to something incredibly special.

If, by the end of it, it doesn’t go the way I planned or wanted, all the little things did add up to something as long as the experience made me feel.

Feelings remind us that we are human, that we are alive, and thank God for it.

To me, it’s always about the little things.

“In the end, it’s these small things that you remember. The little…imperfections that make them perfect, for you.”

To end, please watch this:
Beautifully imperfect.

 

Quotes About Love. Naturally. — March 1, 2016

Quotes About Love. Naturally.

“You know when sometimes you meet someone so beautiful — and then you actually talk to them and five minutes later they’re as dull as a brick; but then there’s other people. And you meet them and think, ‘Not bad, they’re okay,’ and when you get to know them…their face just, sort of, becomes them, like their personality’s written all over it, and they just — they turn into something so beautiful.” (Doctor Who)

“Isn’t it strange? There are so many people out there who secretly love someone. And there are so many people out there who have no idea that someone secretly loves them.”

“I don’t want someone who promises me the world. I want someone to sit on the porch with me and watch it go by as we grow old together.”

“When I’m married, my partner and I will have: morning sex, afternoon sex, dinner sex, after meal sex, I made pancakes sex, good morning sex, the kids are at school sex, shower sex, bored sex, Monday sex, Tuesday sex, Wednesday sex, Thursday sex, Friday sex, Saturday sex, Sunday sex, there’s nothing on tv sex, and the best kind: I love you sex.”